Michelle says in her book not to believe pretty much anything they tell you. I think their actions speak louder than words here. He might tell you "I've never really loved you" or he might tell you "I am fully committed to this R now" cuz he had a fight with OW. Judge actions, not words. Your H doesn't know what he thinks or wants right now. It must be so sad to be in that position. At least we know what we want and are willing to fight for it!
