I don't know where my thread went, and since I'm pretty dumb with the linking, etc. I hope you guys will remember my sitch.

Need some advise please. I had a bad morning. H and I were talking on the cell on our way to work this morning and I asked him if he's heard from the bimbo lately? He wanted to know why I ask? Me, because it's the holidays and it's a trigger for me and I'm sure she will also think of you during this time of year. H - is all this worth it? M- I would be lying if I didn't tell you that's very hard for me. H-he said leave me alone, quit asking me if you love me, quit asking if I'm okay. I just sat there and didn't say anything for a moment and said well, okay then. Of course, I couldn't leave it alone and I asked "did you ever think you would be in this position where your wife asks you questions like this? H-okay, I'm signing off.....me, "you know you could reassure me by telling me that you love me and that it was the biggest mistake of your life" H - in a very sarcastic tone, "I LOVE YOU, have a good day, drive safely good-by and hung up.

Any advise? Am I being overly sensitive. You know, I can't even after almost 2 years, can't go into a jewlry store. It makes me ill. Help, please. Is this normal? Is his response normal?

Thanks.


Gwyn