Well it was a tiring day...But at the tail end now. Whew! H came over 8am sharp as planned to open gifts with dghtr. I got him a shirt and our d got him some salsa he loves; he got me a very nice jewelry box! Mahogany 4 drawers enough for all my crap! I told him, "now i have a nice place to put my old wedding ring!" He just smirked. I said to him, "its ok, i know what you want i am just making light of the sitch" I then did something STUPID...I asked him if he was having second thoughts about the divorce (he hasnt filed yet even though h said he would several wks ago) Quite quickly he replied, "Nope, no second thoughts. Fully aware of what i want. I just didnt want to be a jerk and do it at Xmas. i am not trying to offend you, just answering you" He wasnt mean or anything, just stated the facts. And it didnt sting me, i said, "oh, ok. just asking cause you seemed to be dragging your feet. No prob!" I smiled then went about making us all breakfast. We ate and put away all the garbage and then he set up a few things for our dghtr. We then went to his parents house for dinner and ate, laughed etc. We were all joking (except his parents who are not in that mindset, they want us back together) around and had a really nice afternoon. It is so weird that we are together as friends but nothing more. He gave me a big hug and kiss when he left. It was nice, it was nice to not have to fight with him or wonder, or anything. I am in a good place right now. WHo the heck knows about tomorrow or next week? But now i am at peace. I am getting stronger everyday. Thank you Lord for helping me find my strength.
Hope all had a pleasant peaceful day!
Trying
Silla
In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on....Robert Frost
H came over 8am sharp as planned to open gifts with dghtr. I got him a shirt and our d got him some salsa he loves; he got me a very nice jewelry box! Mahogany 4 drawers enough for all my crap! I told him, "now i have a nice place to put my old wedding ring!" He just smirked. I said to him, "its ok, i know what you want i am just making light of the sitch" I then did something STUPID...I asked him if he was having second thoughts about the divorce (he hasnt filed yet even though h said he would several wks ago) Quite quickly he replied, "Nope, no second thoughts. Fully aware of what i want. I just didnt want to be a jerk and do it at Xmas. i am not trying to offend you, just answering you" He wasnt mean or anything, just stated the facts. And it didnt sting me, i said, "oh, ok. just asking cause you seemed to be dragging your feet. No prob!" I smiled then went about making us all breakfast. We ate and put away all the garbage and then he set up a few things for our dghtr. We then went to his parents house for dinner and ate, laughed etc. We were all joking (except his parents who are not in that mindset, they want us back together) around and had a really nice afternoon. It is so weird that we are together as friends but nothing more. He gave me a big hug and kiss when he left. It was nice, it was nice to not have to fight with him or wonder, or anything. I am in a good place right now. WHo the heck knows about tomorrow or next week? But now i am at peace. I am getting stronger everyday. Thank you Lord for helping me find my strength.
