Wife keeps calling me for financial assistance. I know she has been seeing someone else (she admitted). She claims nothing has happened but I know she is lying. I do not know what to do. I want to save this marriage but the interferance for the OM is making this very hard. I read somewhere that affairs generally last about 3-6 months. This is the second time this has happened. Finances are the catalyst. See "She's not in love anymore."