Ok I will let the kids decide if they want to spend their allowance on a gift for him or not. My SIL takes the kids shopping for a gift for me. so thats taken care of.I'm gonna go get our tree this weekend we went to a farm and didn't see anything we liked so then I was gonna buy one from a lot but my son would not have anything to do with that idea so we are going this weekend to Imlay city for one..It should be fun.. thanks for the ideas.