No gift, it's time to let go. If he wanted a gift from the kids through you, he should have stayed in the M. If the day comes where things change and the two of you work things out, then the gifts can start again.
We will give you a call if we get together. I think Sherman is gone most of the holidays though.
Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding
