Doug, you are right I don't need someone but it make it easier if there was someone to share things with. I have not spoke to ex since he took the kids out on Tuesday and thats just fine with me. i'm alittle confused about buying him a gift for christmas it would be for the kids to give him but he would know that I bought it...I did last year even though he didn't buy anything for me and that was fine..what do you think gift no gift..I would like to get together over the holidays with you guys again so if anyone is doing anything let me know I have a break from school fromDec. 22 thru Jan 8 thats a long time to have off...I will try and get alot of stuff around the house done while I have time..Joa.
