I think you are right and he does need help but we are just going to let him be for awhile and see what comes of it if he calls the kids then fine if not that fine to. I will continue to be here for them and to pick up the pieces each and every time he hurts them and that all I can do I can't make him be a dad he has to chose that path on his own and hopefully one day he will before it's to late..as far as my nap went I went shopping first then had a nap and it was ok I still feel icky but it comes with the job(school kids). thanks and I will talk to you again soon..Joa.
