Well I'm done hanging on I'm finally done dealing with my ex.after what he did this weekend to my daughter I could care left if anything bad happens to him.. he came to D soccer game and I was talking to some of the parents and he mouthed some thing to me so I went over and asked what he said and he was questioning the game time I told him one was cancelled and one was a make-up game. then I told him that since he told my D that he was just gonna sit home for christmas I called his dad and made arrangments for them to see them he blow up and said why didn't you call me and ask me about it I told him what D said and that they invited me over to and he just got really pissed. then he went to where D was warming up and told her he was stepping out of her life and made her cry well I had had enough so I went after him and just said this is it you will no longer hurt them I'm done being nice and if they don't want to ever see you again then they don't have to..I told him he is constantly telling lies and trying to make everyone feel sorry for him because he has no money well it sucks to be him I really don't have any money either but we still manage and then he said I never once told him thanks for giving me the house in the divorce and I was like you gave it to me no it's more like the mediator gave it to me... and then he said something to the fact that Ive painted this picture about her to them and that shes such a bad person I let him know that I don't even talk about her and him. I told him that if he was with someone else that they would go over there he doesn't think so but I just said even though you live there it's her house.well you know what it's his loss not mine I will always be there for my kids and to pick up the pieces when he shatters their world. I'm sure he will call in a few days to say sorry he always does.anyways I'm home sick today so I'm gonna go and take a nap thanks for letting me vent Joa.