In my case, I can't believe much of anything that my H says to me. But if your wife has been completely honest about everything, even the A, then you be the judge. If she hasn't hidden anything then maybe she really is going to get closure. I will pray that is the case. Keep me posted and send me emails whenever you need.


"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."