Quote: Any thoughts on what I should do when she comes back? Let her initiate R talk? Welcome her back with fanfare or non-chalant welcome? Thanks, SOH
I don't want to make you feel worse than you probably already feel, but on the other hand I don't want you looking like a gullible sap in your W's eyes either.
As somebody already said here, actions speak louder than words. You know your W better than I do, but if my W were telling me what yours was, the red flags would be slapping me across the face. Things are not always as they appear and that goes double for the spoken word.
As far as how to treat her when she returns, I'd ignore her completely unless she specifically ask you a question. No comments, no opinions, and definitely no fan fare.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
