My PMA at home backslid a little though. OM called her. Then we agreed earlier today that we would watch a movie tonight instead of going out for a glass of wine.
Instead she turned dropping off some CD's to a friend into going to hang out at the bar that she works at. And wouldn't you know that she left just late enough to where I wouldn't want to leave the house for drinks.
I started getting pissed off as it played out more. It showed a little. I didn't make a big deal out of it.
She did ask me if I wanted to go after she asked if I minded if she went to which I replied no. She didn't ask me until she was almost ready to leave and when I said that I may join her she wasn't really thrilled so I just said. . . .you go hang out with your friends, I am going to spend time with the boys.
Well, I guess this is the last interaction that I will have with her before she goes on her trip to see OM. She won't be home before 1 or 2 in the morning. . . .if I am lucky. Then I go to work and she leaves for Denver.
I am not going to call her once this weekend. That is my promise to myself. I may not even answer the phone if she calls.
What do I do when she comes back?? I need some suggestions and how I should behave.
Good news is 3rd day in a row not calling her at home and no ILY's.
I did give her some praise today which is one of my 180's. I never used to affirm. It is hard when they are having an A right under your nose!!!!!!!!!!!
I am kind of grumpy. I need a glass of vino.
SOH
M 34
H 34
Together 8 yrs
Married 7 yrs
Son 2 1/2
Son 2 1/2
SD 12
