Just wanted to let you know that after I read your last post on my thread, I got up from my laptop and went in and sat down in the living room with S4. You are very right about my S4. I don't think that lack of attention is his only issue, but I know that it's a big one.
Many things you mentioned about yourself in the post got me to wondering about you and I've read through this thread. I am glad to have found someone who is also faced with the kinds of decisions I am re: major relocation and career stuff heaped on top of a long distance M that has only recently been rekindled.
I want to stay in touch with you. Everything you said in your post on my thread was very valuable.
I also want you to know my current slant on things: I don't have much faith that a crippled M can pull through these kinds of major changes, but I also think, the big advantage to giving the relocation a shot is that you will have closure if it doesn't work out and you re-relocate. You're not an idiot for trying again, you just aren't all-knowing.
