Quote: How often do you take opportunities when he's reaching out to hurt him on purpose?
NEVER! OMG, I could not even stomach the thought and that is why he knows that if he needs to talk (particularly on Thurs. evenings) I am there...always.
Jazz I am on the other end of this thing so I cannot imagine why your W would be so ruthless. First, I cannot fathom being the breaker upper. My H is my love and that is why the confusion and other issues make me SO crazy. I am serious too, like crazy to the point where if another person heard what I was thinking, my room would be padded and I would get lots of good meds...
All I can advise is that you let her get it out. She will feel like crap when she realizes her mistakes. My only suggestion is to make it ok for her to be sorry so that she is more likely to do it. My H knows that I will hold no grudge over this separation should I return home. I now know it was a great learning experience for us both and I feel that he needed time to himself that he would have never gotten any other way.
