Quote: Like today after work I want to go and sit at her apartment and watch her door and see if anyone come and go! That’s crazy but that’s how I feel sometimes, I don’t think I will do it, but I sure want to!
Same here! However, I know that if I saw something I could not bring it up and I would be SOOOO hurt. Besides everything that I have been suspicous about has been wrong anyway...or H is good at explaning things away(?). Remember you are seeing things through emotionally jaded eyes.
I've been wrong all the time also, but it doesn't make any sense to me about what she's doing. I ask her did she have someone else and she said no, and ask me why would I think that? I told her that this is just not adding up in my head.
I did not realize the age difference between you two until just now. Not that it is THAT significant of a difference but if you feel it contributes to her immaturity and that in turn causes the problems in your M then it is an issue to look at.
I don't think that the age difference is a problem, she will be 30 in 3 months.
Not sure what she means by downhill unless she misspoke.
What she ment by that is R start off good and get bad over time, but ours was the opposite. Not so great in the beginning and got better over time.
Have you ever considered things were going too good and she got frightened? We can be our own worst enemy while waiting on the proverbial "other shoe" to drop.
That is another possibility, we were going good, but she always found something to complain about in the R and I fixed whatever she complained about. She could have been scared that things were too good. She often ask if I would ever leave her and that she feared that I would one day.
Me: 37 WAW: 31 M: 6 Years No Kids BOMB: 9/4/06 D: 9/16/07 my sitch
