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I feel that way too about my sitch. I think that kind of history is what will get you through this successfully. Nobody can replace or compare since you two have been together so long. I am learning the importance of becoming friends again and for us, we just need this time get some kink ironed out. However, I completely understand your position about working on yourself and wanting to share it with the one you love. I cannot imagine spending my life with anyone else and fear that my trying to DB so much and so hard will cause us to falter. SG, you and I have this passion for our R because of how we grew up and refuse to be just another broken M. Your W will see her expectations are too much, just keep your dignity adn remember PATIENCE (I have to remind myself of this EVERYDAY!).

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Thanks again for your kind and encouraging words S4N,

That’s so true, my changes are for me but I want my life partner to reap the benefits of my hard work. Hopefully she will stop and take a look at our history and realize that she the one that made me into the wonderful man that I am today! She was also complaining that our relationship started off rocky and over time it became better and better. But she said what she wants is a normal relationship, one that starts off great and goes down hill as the relationship progresses!? (ok, I know that sound crazy but that’s what she said.) Things like this is what make me think that she is young and very confused.

I’m so good with patience some day and other days I rather not talk about. Like today after work I want to go and sit at her apartment and watch her door and see if anyone come and go! That’s crazy but that’s how I feel sometimes, I don’t think I will do it, but I sure want to!