Yes my wife did mention D at a couple different points. Each time I said I didn't want one, but I couldn't stop her from filing if she wanted to. I also told her I would never file so if she wanted a D she would have to do it. Each time she agree to give it more time but gave me it's hopeless attitude.
I got the same it's hopeless attitude from her yesterday and she seem like she is full steam ahead. I don't think I'm going to worry too much about her word or her actions. She was the same way back in June when she first left.
In retrospect at times I think she thought she wanted a D but when it came down to it, she could not pull the trigger or deep down she wanted the marriage to work but she just did not see it happening.
I think my W is in the same boat, because she ask me a few times do I want her to come home? But I don't think she will go through with the D, she was very emotional yesterday and was worried about me being ok.
That being said she was hinting at a D just a couple of weeks before she initiated the reconciliation. So at the end of the day I think she was confused and scared and the guilt of breaking up our family was too much for her.
My W was telling me that she was feeling guilty for doing this and I was making her feel guilty. I told her that I can't make you feel guilty. Well I think that there is still hope, I going to have to go with the LRT again.
Me: 37 WAW: 31 M: 6 Years No Kids BOMB: 9/4/06 D: 9/16/07 my sitch
