Yes my wife did mention D at a couple different points. Each time I said I didn't want one, but I couldn't stop her from filing if she wanted to. I also told her I would never file so if she wanted a D she would have to do it. Each time she agree to give it more time but gave me it's hopeless attitude. She made excuses a couple of times about how she didn't have the money for a lawyer which was BS because I gave her enough money each month to hire 3 lawyers but she chose to spend it on something else. I always took that as a good sign (paying attention to their actions more than their words). In retrospect at times I think she thought she wanted a D but when it came down to it, she could not pull the trigger or deep down she wanted the marriage to work but she just did not see it happening.
That being said she was hinting at a D just a couple of weeks before she initiated the reconciliation. So at the end of the day I think she was confused and scared and the guilt of breaking up our family was too much for her.
