I heard the same thing from my WAW. Eventually, she ackowledged the changes were permanent but it took a long time. She would always say you should have done it sooner before she walked away or it took me leaving for you to do it. It takes some time before they believe it is real.
kidsaver
KS, thanks for checking in on me.
I was telling W today that I'm glad that she left because that gave me the time and opportunity to become a better person. I was getting better when she was here but not as fast as I could have. I told her that me becoming a better person and a better man is at an accelerated rate now that she’s gone because I have time alone to work on myself. I also told her that I was not gong to give my hard work and hard earned changes to someone else. The most important thing is that she’s seeing the changes and I know that she’s a little confused right now, so I have to make them stick and be lasting changes.
I also told her that it was hard taking care of a 2600 sq. ft. house by myself and that I need to give this up and leave the house because it’s too much for me to handle alone. ( I was being whiney and playing the poor me) After this I told her that God would not give me more than I can handle and I enjoy taking care of home!
Me: 37 WAW: 31 M: 6 Years No Kids BOMB: 9/4/06 D: 9/16/07 my sitch
