Ok, I just set DBing back about 100 years 30 min ago. I let W drag me into an argument and I took the bait hook, line and sinker!!!! W told me she was going by the house to pick up some clothes for our trip. So guess who decides to leave work early? W was POed because I showed up, she said that she didn’t feel safe with me there!?? (WTH) She was bi+ching about me buying new clothes and that the house was clean. W said that I didn’t do that when she was there and that she couldn’t take the guilt of seeing me at the house.

CM, you were so right about the guilt! W was crying the whole time she was here.


But I was just telling WAW that I wish that I could have saw the separation coming and that hindsight is always 20/20. And that I wish I knew then what I know now, but she kept saying how lonely that she was and that she didn’t do enough for herself.

But at the end the argument she told me that she would call me Thursday so she can come by and leave her car in the garage, so we could ride to the airport together. I told her that was fine and that I was really sorry for some of the things that I said. I also told her I was angry and that anger is just a feeling of being hurt. I also told her that I do not want to talk about the R when we’re in Connecticut over Christmas, but I know her all too well. If I don’t say anything she will bring it up, I’ll have to just bite my tongue and put up my stop sign up.

Boy, what a ride today!!!!


Me: 37
WAW: 31
M: 6 Years
No Kids
BOMB: 9/4/06
D: 9/16/07
my sitch