The WAW doesn't think about others. They are very selfish and self-centered. That is why they don't do certain things or say certain thing....it brings up feelings in THEM that THEY don't want to deal with. You ASSUME that they should feel a certain way and EXPECT them to feel that way. You can't do this. Just focus on YOU!
Your W is mad b/c she notices those changes and you didn't do them sooner. Keep it up. The more consistant you are, the more she will see the changes as being permanent!!
M-35 going on 15 D-8 S- 3 yrs ex-CL(w)- 30
D over one year
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be. Douglas Adams "Just Be"