I think the reason she doesn't want you to show emotions is b/c she doesn't want to deal with the pain and guilt of her actions.
How can someone realistically think that this crap is not going to hurt the other person and guilt and pain is a result of her actions, so she has to take some responsibility for her actions. What if by doing this (the separation) that she might damage this beyond repair? Then that’s the guilt that she will have to deal with for the rest of her life and some other woman is going to have a great man! She know that I am a great guy and use to tell me all the time, so that’s why this is all a shock to me.
So, if you really want to throw her for a loop....act "As If and Happy" She won't know what hit her. She will probably get PO'd for a while and that's fine.
She’s already acting PO'd because I sound so calm and laid back when I talk to her on the phone and I look so good when I see her and she can’t stand it. It’s killing that I’m doing so good without her and it’s driving her crazy!
Me: 37 WAW: 31 M: 6 Years No Kids BOMB: 9/4/06 D: 9/16/07 my sitch
