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Hey guys, I’m still around, I’ve just been doing thing to keep me busy and not worrying about WAW. I decorated the house inside and out for Christmas and I really enjoyed doing that! WAW ask me to go to Connecticut for Christmas with her! I’m going with her and I told her that I did not want to talk about the relationship and just wanted to spend time with my nieces and have a good time relaxing and enjoying my time off from work (that I really need).

We will have 7 days together, we will take a 3 hour flight and a 2 and a half car ride from the airport to her sister’s house. We have to wait for the luggage and go and rent a car so we will have to spend a lot of time together alone and the same thing on the way back. So this my opportunity to show her my changes over the week that we are there and that I have changed for the better. Our WAS leave us because they don’t know what else to do and they want us to change. But sometime we just don’t get it until we are hit between the eyes with a 2X4! In most cases they really don’t want to divorce us, but walking away they think is their only option at the time.

I’m still having my moments here and there, but they are far and few in between. She’s still acting like that I can’t have any emotions about the whole situation and I just need to take losing my wife in stride and that really bothers me. I can’t talk about what’s bothering me and she keeps bringing up that I’ve been talking to her family. I haven’t talked to her family in over a month, my MIL call yesterday to check on me and told me that it was a good opportunity for us that I’m going to Connecticut.

So if anyone have any advise I can sure use some now!!!