Well, On my sitch, if she was just talking to anybody, it wouldn't be such a problem. She has always had guy friends. This guy is the one she cheated with for over a year. You want me to go through the pain of building trust again? want me to let go and feel secure in our relationship again ? Want me to go maybe years w/o getting the attention I want from you while you heal from your childhood abuse issues?????? STOP ANY CONTACT WITH YOUR AFFAIR PARTNER !!!!!!!
Last week, I started talking to other women. Went on a few dates this week. Talk about a PMA builder ! Aid, i love my wife very much, anybody who has read my first two threads will vouch for it. But there's no way that I could go through with this for 3 yrs. I admire you for it. I've only been married to her for less than 3 yrs, and less than 1 yr into it is when things started going south, as far as lack of affection. Do I want the other women? Hell no, but I'm not gonna sit around waiting on the crumbs she throws me. I'm not gonna like feeling like I'm her second choice either, or her fall back to guy.
