Just wanted to ask you what you have done regarding your H's behavior? I too have the same type of thing with my H. He can't seem to let go. doesn't show much remorse but says he doesn't want a D. Repeatedly said it's over with OW but over and over again I've found him still getting calls at work from her. He says he doesn't respond...yah right!!! When I tell him that he should no longer get calls or change his work #, he says "well maybe that is an idea" I don't push too much, because he could change # to satisfy me and then give her the # without my knowing. All done thru work where I don't have any access. The thing I don't get is that he had left last yr. wanted D, filed for legal sep. Then I think within a couple months got scared and wanted to come back. A friend who is spiritual got a hold of him and read the bible passages that deal with infidelity. Told him he was living a lie. Anyhow, he begged to come back and the rest is history. He is back to not completely letting go of OW.
In my case she's got alot to offer, grown kids, super rich with yacht's and houses all over the place. Wants to share her life and riches with him....
Just wanted to know what you have done about boundaries.
