I might say Once a liar, always a Liar.... Not sure about the cheating part. Although my H did cheat in my opinion, he has never and will never admit any wrong doing. But he has always continued to lie to me about everything. I feel that once a lie is told, so many more must come after to protect the first lie, so it is just a never ending web of lies...
On remorse, I have been aware that my H has never felt remorse or regret for what he did, and it is so sad, because he truly hurt me and I have told him how much he was hurting me, but he kept doing it anyway - this is why I have come to realize that this man is not right for me...
I believe if there is true remorse then the marriage may be salvagable, but if no remorse, it is not worth saving... These are just my opinions, but I like the discussion...
