thank you both for your post. Amy, I think, by your firey response (man up and think for your own damned self ! ) that you took my attitude the wrong way. I am not sitting here feeling sorry for myself or doubting that she can be faithful. I know that I and everyone else on this board believes that The statement is not always true. If we didn't then we wouldn't be here. Instead we'd all have given up and moved on to the next person. jokerman, I think that your answer is a very good one and mirrors my own beliefs. However your line about remorse does bring up one doubt that I have about my own situation. My wife SAYS that she is remorseful, yet she still is involved , in one way or another, with the OM. Now you can tell me your sorry, and you'd take it back if you could all you want, however, if you continue to do it, then you have lost all credibility when you say that. Amy, I like you, becouse you shoot strait ! I had been thinking about that statement, becouse of so many poeple saying it to me lately. It would take me a long time to explain to them why I'd disagree. I wanted to start a dialog on the board about it, and it looks like It's getting off to a pretty good start. Would anybody on this board agree with the statement ?
