I'm sure there are many multiple cheaters out there; however, there are many more of us one timers too.
People make mistakes. We lie. We cheat. We steal. The key to life is learning from your F-ups and making yourself a better person so you do not make the same mistake twice.
If you can put your wife in that category and want to work on your marriage and she does to, you will be OK.
My wife just learned of my affair. She may very well leave. I don't know. The one thing I am certain of is that I will NEVER cheat again. I already burned my hand on the stove. I a'int that bright, but I know it hurts.
