" Once a cheater, always a cheater " I have heard this line for as long as I can remember, and now that I am faced with my wife having cheated, and the possibility of reconcilliation, I seem to hear it from everybody who knows that my wife cheated on me. It's as if they are telling me that I am a fool for working on saving our marriage. I cheated on my first wife. When I did, and I didn't feel the guilt that I always thought I would, I knew that I had to get out. It's the one big skeleton in my closet, and I swore to myself that I wouldn't do it again. It's also something that my wife used to throw in my face when she got suspicious of me. But I didn't cheat on her, even in times where she was withdrawn from me and not sleeping with me for months. So, now that we are somewhat closer to working things out, I have to take this into consideration. What do you think about that statement ???
