I am afraid you are correct. Bad news there are family events that I have to be with her at. In addition we planned a family trip after the first of the year. She wants to file before then. I may tell her that I respect her desire to file, but I have thought it over and if she does I do not think it is appropriate for me to go along. I plan to do so in a kind way.
I am so angry with her for what she is doing to our family. The only way to hide the anger is to stay away from her as much as possible. Our kids are devistated. My daughter cannot go to school, she cried for an hour the other day when she was with me. My boys are also having problems. She doesn't seem to really care. I have asked her to go to counseling just so we can get along, but she will not. She is clearly selfish and the only course I have is to let her go, I just hate to see this destruction.
