I am convinced there is nothing I can do to stop W. from filing for D. She believes that life will be better for her with a D. She wants to be friends. She says she has no desire to date for a long time. She thinks she will land on her feet, blah blah blah. I told her I was not giving up and she just had to deal with that. I am going to let her file, but I am meeting with a lawyer today. A close friend is convinced that she will not eventually divorce me. His ex-wife wants to talk to w and tell her the divorce trap.
I am setting up a coaching session. I think the only option is to just let her go and move on. We will have contact (the cruise with the kids) and maybe a few formal events. A d. will take some time, maybe a few months, so I have some time. It just breaks my heart what she is doing to our family for her selfish endevour. Sometimes I get very angry with her. Everytime I talk to her I get mad. Obviously I just need to stay away from her. Of course with 3 kids that is hard.
