The w. asked me to book a cruise for the family as a gift. Yes I go. W. wants to bring our friend (female) I suspect to shaperone, good idea. W. wants to file as to I actually but hold off on finalizing. I guess this is all a good idea. My problem is that I get so damn angry with the situation! She says she wants control if I go nuts. Makes sense. I am not handling this very well at all. Worst damn thing I have ever been through.