Thanks. I have toned it down and have not sent it yet. I meet with a lawyer on Monday to explore options. She is oblivious to my actions. She is having lunch with a friend who has told me (via another) that she is going to read the riot act to the WAW. The friend went through a divorce and ended up friends with her X. She is going to surprisingly tell the W. not to expect this same result and the W should try everything to save the M. I am not behind this, I was just told of this yesterday. Maybe it will bring some attention to the W. that all is not green on the otherside of the fence.
I have been extremely nice to her lately. I have spent a lot of time with the kids and her. We have had fun. In addition I have spent time on myself and started working very hard (my passion is my work!). Fortunately business is good and keeps my mind occupied and away from this crap!
I plan on being methodical about this whole thing. As much as I want to save my marriage, I must be prepared for the next (awful) step. One of the nice things about this forum is that it allows me to vent before I act.
