The W. wants to talk, but she keeps putting it off. I think it is about a more structured visitation arrangement. The last counselor we saw suggested family mediation to iron out the issue. I told W. it was her responsibility to set it up as I am tired of driving this bus (reconciliation, resolution, counseling, etc). In addition I am tired of her bugging me so I redid my e-mail that I have not sent - I have thought about the remodeling project in light of our present circumstances. To put it simply I will not agree to any remodeling projects with the exception of a new roof on the garage unless and until I move back home and we reconcile. I know this will upset you and is not meant to, I just cannot approve spending money on a house that I am not welcome in and for a spouse that wants a divorce.
