W has pretty much said she wants a d. But she also wants me to redo the kitchen, roof of the house, replace the doors and other work. She has made no attempt to go to counseling and for the most part has been a royal b, although she can be nice. I am tired of the roller coaster. I am prepared to send the following e-mail "If you expect me to agree to pay to redo the kitchen, roof, shutters and doors, then I expect you to let me move back home and reconcile."
I know it looks childish, but I really do not want to spend money on the house she will not let me move back into. She keeps implying a nice house would be nice for the kids. I ignore that foolishness. Her MLC has gone too far. Any advice out there?
