Last night was crap. She yelled at me about an issue (unrelated to our R). Then denied she yelled at me. I could tell she was pissed off and we talked R. I told her she was a classic WAW, she actually seemed interested and wanted to know more. I gave her some articles. Don't know if that was a good idea, but when I learned about the psychology of my reaction (pursuing, clinging etc.) it helped me. Who knows she may see things in a different light. Is this wishfull thinking? I would appreciate a response I posted a similar one on another area and nothing yet. She also confessed that she is depressed and lays in bed at night worrying about the future. That really concerns me, I care for her and do not want her to hurt even though she has put me through hell.
She is cooking tonight. I am tired as a dog. Up late working, so I do not have the energy to fight.
