I get to hang out at the house tonight with the kids. The w. and I had a little spat, more due the fact that I did not sleep last night. She understood and backed down. We work together (yuch!), we had some fun today joking around. She said good bye to me when she left (since the bomb she usually does not). I asked her if we all could do stuff Tuesday, Wednesday night and Saturday. We usually eat together Wednesday and my d has a function Saturday we are only talking about one extra day. The thing that gets me in trouble is that I want to talk about the R. That is due to the fact that I have not been with her and the kids much. I think this is a positive move. I get to spend quality time with kids, help the w. with the house hold crap and maybe spend an evening not talking about R. What I really need is time to reconcile.