Piecing question

[want2bmarried]

Its funny you brought up both books in your post. I was sitting and had both books in my hand last night. I was trying to decide where I was at. I think I am going to try a combination of both like you said. For 5 long, grueling, painful months I have DB'd. I think it has brought him around, but I (and I assume responsibility for this) have allowed him to cross the line and pretty much use me all in the name of being his friend. He knows what he is doing. And as long as he gets his way then he is fine. That is where I am going to put the Breakup book into play. The odds are WAH is not coming home and I need to start preparing myself for that. I have lived in hope and all it has gotten me is heartache. It has given me a backbone so to speak. He has been a real jackass and very cruel, but I have allowed it too.

So from both books I am going dark, GAL and trying to get on with my life. If he decides he wants to be a part of it, great. If not, its his loss.

Thanks for the words they do help so much.