Quote: I finally can see what a miserable person he really is and blaming me and sucking me down with him is all part of the game.
Don't play his game. You and your children don't need to be pulled down with him because of his misery. You WILL become a stronger person when this is all said and done, no matter what the outcome. Let him go, at least for now, he doesn't sound like a healthy person to be around right now. Like they say around here, Let go and Let God. Hang in there!