Piecing question

[want2bmarried]

Thank you both for the replies. WAH just left. We had a great night together. I had just gotten home from a day with girlfriends and dinner and I was pretty dressed up and had been drinking just a bit. That did not make him happy at all. He is very insecure. Who talked to me, who I flirted with, who hit on me. He was frustrated and made comments all night. He did say he was not ready to jump into living together, but was willing to spend some time together. He doesn't want our kids to know at all so they won't be disappointed. These are words I have been waiting to hear for so long, BUT I am so scared he is not sincere and will run again.

To me, spending a night here and there is not working on your issues, but I need patience. I guess its better than nothing. I have to take what I can get.

What do you all think? I am not calling, I will let him do that. Or should i call and ask if he wants to go to lunch or dinner this week?

He left this morning in quite a hurry. Maybe his alien brain started to kick in again. Last thing he said was "have a good day". So that tells me I probably wont hear from him all day.