Piecing question

[want2bmarried]

Well, no more calls or texts from WAH last night. He must be "thinking" again. Trying to keep a PMA. Drives me crazy that he is using our March final D date as a goal for possible R. He says we still have 4 months to decide. Why wait if this is what is in your heart? My friends think he is stringing me along and then when March comes he will just say "see ya". I would like to think that WAH isn't like that and if you asked me a year ago I would say he could never, but now he is this alien that I have no idea who he is and what he will do next.

I am kinda bummed that I switched days for the kids with my first ex this weekend so I could be free to spend time with WAH like he asked and now he bailed.

A strange comment WAH made the other night is:

I am not seeing yet the changes in you that I need to see.

WTheck does that mean? How do you make changes when you hardly spend time together? And when I asked him to be specific, he couldn't. he just danced around the question.

I hope to get some replies. I really value everyones thoughts and opinions.