I'd lost track of you. Didn't know you'd moved over here from the "Walk Away Wife Syndrome" section. I posted a note on that thread that you're over here now.
At any rate, I've been reviewing your thread to catch up. Wow!! So much has happened since your last post over in WAWS back in Nov. I'm not anywhere near where you are so I have no advice for you. Just curiosity I suppose. I'll agree with you, however, that you are caught in a rather strange kind of limbo.
I am encouraged by what has transpired in your sitch and I would assume that you now have some cautious optimism for the future. I pray for strength and patience for you. I get the feeling you'll be needing plenty of both in the coming months. Stay strong and know that I'm sending best wishes your way. May 2007 bring about the revival of your M, happiness to you and your W, and a peace that passeth understanding.