Hey Jersting, so tell me what's happening buddy. Xmas night sounded a little difficult. How has she been since pal? I think what you asked about DBing in the situation that you are in is easy to answer. Until you are living back together and working on the R together, yes you keep your guard up and protect yourself. You have to keep working on you even after you become a we again my friend.

I just wanted to check in on you and make sure you were ok, things change so quickly around here you can really lose touch fast. Anyway, I hope you are doing ok bud, let me know if you need anything.

Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09