jersting-DO NOT make the same mistake I made. I threw the D word around thinking it would shock my H and he would wake up and try to do something differently. It backfired on me BIG TIME. The only thing it did was force my H into considering a life without me. H told me that divorce is an invasive thought and once it gets in your head it becomes easier and easier to consider.
Listen to Ian-he's so wise-lose the divorce talk. It will not be to your benefit. Trust me.
Me-40 H-35 Married for 10 years No Kids but dogs and cats Still Living Together Sleeping Apart