NO D TALK!!!

If you ever learn anything from me (which you probably will only learn what not to do!!)....learn this....NO D TALK!!! It just puts the thought back into their heads. I've learned this the hard way.

You are in piecing for God's sake....why would you even bring up the D? Maybe she was just testing you to see how you would react?

Brother man......She has guilt and shame...It's normal. You still need to let her do what she needs to do for herself. Don't worry about the D...keep worrying about you. Just cause you are in piecing doesn't mean you can go back to focusing on her actions and what she is doing all the time. You havve to continue to focus on you!!!!

Ok..maybe I am way off base here....but...<<<<THWACK>>> 2x4 w/ my .02 right at ya!!


M-35 going on 15
D-8
S- 3 yrs
ex-CL(w)- 30

D over one year

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