Just getting started piecing it back

[jersting]

Making a long story short because I don't have much time.
Spent Saturday evening and sunday with family because d10 Birthday. Slept in same bed as wife last night. We got along great everything was nice. Tonight I have kids at my house and wife asked me to go to church with her. After church when she was droping me back at home she informed me she was taking the co-parenting class that we both have to take before we can get a d. I haven't taken class yet. I was hurt by this and she seen that I was then went to leave and said she was taking class because she is a terrible mother not because she is taking another step toward d. I said she was not a terrible mother and we would not be in this position if I had been a beter husband and father. I said that I was cruising along OK because I figured we would be taking more steps toward D. and since we were not I thought that things were going pretty good. Now I see we are taking another step toward D. She said this was not a step toward D she just needed to find out what is going on with the kids. Then she left. I am so confused