it is normal to have misgivings, so much has happened, but don't let fear rob you of a good chance of getting back w/her, conquer your fear, we all here put our heart on the line again. During the first months of having our Ss back lots of us here wonder when the other shoe is going to drop, it's because we've been through so much.
I think you are doing great, don't sick yourself w/what ifs, you are giving her space and she seems to be coming to you, even if there is a setback later on, it is bound to happen, you guys are learning to trust/know each other over again.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.