Just getting started piecing it back

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When she asked for the money did she make it sound like a loan or as an advance of what you usually have to pay her?

As an advance of what I have to pay her. But definitly added that she needed more without coming out and asking for it.

You could either a) make the 100$ be part of your weekly court payments 2) be nice just this once and not ask her to pay you back.

no disrespect intended but I realize these are my 2 options. I want to know what would be the best way to handle this. 1 let her do it on her own to see if she can handle things like this without me? or 2 help her more than she is asking me to so I can show her I am here for her?