Just getting started piecing it back

[jersting]

I have a question.
My wife wanted me to transfer 100 from the savings to the checking to cover the overdraft that she done in the check book. My lawyer told me not to touch any of the savings accounts during this period. So I called the bank (the president is my good friend) and asked my friend to put 100 in the checking acount and I would pay him back tomarrow when I see him.
I am under a court order to pay my wife 100 a week plus the bills at the house where she and the kids live. She is supposed to pay her car payment, a bank loan she has and the grocieries. (she has not made the last car payment because we had it paid ahead before we seperated.)
Now to the question... She has expressed to me that she is broke and she has to use the 100 she gets from me to take care of the mistake she made with checking account. Should I go ahead and pay back the banker and also give her the 100 or should I use the 100 that I give her and pay the banker? I am not broke persay, but I owe alot of money to my friends on things that I have purchased to fix up the house I am in and I am paying them as I get paid here at work. I am spending money that I don't have and for the first time in my life living paycheck to paycheck because I cannot touch any of my savings accounts. I am not worried about where I am going to get money from because I know that we are provided with what we need in life. I wonder if I help her too much if she thinks I will do that after D. Or should I let her struggle and see what it will be like if she is without me? I make alot of money and there are not too many people around here that my wife can find that can take care of her and the family the way I have been able to. Any suggestions out here?