Just getting started piecing it back

[jersting]

let me know how it goes

Last night my family came to my place. I went to store before they got there and bought some cookie dough to put in the oven and have the house smell like home instead of a newly remodeled house. I asked them to come over at 5:30 and had it planned to go pick up pizza the same time they got there. They were late so I went to go get pizza and left the door unlocked. Perfect timing worked out and I pulled in the same time they did. As soon as they came in the cookies were done and the kids were excited to get into them. I told them they had to have some pizza first. I have a small table with 3 chairs and the 3 of them sat down there to eat. I got a plate and asked wife if she would like to sit on couch with me while we ate. She did and we were having a nice time just sitting together and eating. Our S8 came in living room with us and finished eating. This left D10 at table in kitchen by herself. I went into kitchen and asked her to join us in living room and she declined. We all finished eating and I asked D to pick a movie and put in. Everything was real nice. W sat right next to me on the couch and D sat right next to her, son on chair across the room (he is a bit of a loner).

Wife and I acted like teenage daters. I wispered to wife and asked if it would be ok for me to hold her hand. She smiled and put her hand out. At this point my D snuggled up real close to W. We sat enjoying movie and wife and I were wispering back in forth with little bits of nothing just so we could rub our faces together. after a little while, W got up to use restroom and D10 slid over next to me. I told her when mom came back that she would have to move and she didn't say anything. W came back and D10 didn't move to let W sit down next to me so I said xxx you are in mom's seat. W walked back over to kitchen and D said something to her, W did not hear what she said so she said what did you say xxx. D10 screamed back at wife and this upset W. She yelled back at D and told her to straighten up. When W came back in and sat down I was telling D to be nice. W was upset from the way D talked to her and I asked wife to just relax and she was ready to leave. (they had only been there about 1 hour at this point). I wispered in W's ear, please don't let this upset you. I then softly lefted her checks to a smiling face and she smiled.
W went outside to smoke and I asked D10 why she acted that way and she said it was because the way mom and you were acting. I said that we were trying to get back to a better understanding of each other and I hoped that D could understand this was the way things needed to work in order for us to work on getting me back to the house. I asked her to be more understanding of us and to be nice to her mother when things like this happened. wife came back into house and D and S were getting rambunctious (spelling?) (maybe too many cookies) they were fighting and caring on so I split them up. W went into kitchen and asked me to come in there to talk to her. I went in and she told me she didn't mean to plan D birthday party on my weekend and that I could come and pick up the kids on Friday night instead of Sat. and bring them back on Sat. for b-day party. I said that if she had things to do on Fri. I would do that but that was a week away and maybe I would just come over for B-day and stay the night there in the basement if she wanted it to go that way. She asked if I would do that and I said if it would be ok with her. She wanted to try and get into a little R talk and I didn't think that we are at a point to do that especially with the kids right there with us. I just said that I was ready to work on things if she was. She asked why I wasn't ready a couple weeks ago and I said I was, I just didn't know how. I said that I think I know how now, I think and we would take it real slow. Instead of being together full time like we started the last time we would just try to get together when it is convienent for both of us. She agreed and the R talk was ended by me asking her for a kiss. I was expecting a peck and I got a open mouth lip lock. (wow it was great and she walked away with a "whew that was nice").
After this short 3 minute talk, we started rounding up the kids to leave and we all hugged and they left. They ended up staying about 2 hours total and I told W I was happy she came over and she said she was happy also. She called me this morning to ask me to help her with her checking acount that was over drawn and I asked what she wanted me to do. She asked me to call the bank and transfer money from our savings account to our checking account. I said I would and called her back after that and let her know I done that. She seemed very pleasant and I said I had a nice time last night and she said she did too. I left it at that and told her that I needed to go get some work done now and we said bye. (not talk to you later, GH).
This ended up being alot longer than I thought, but I wanted to include as many details as I could so you all could get it all. I hope you will let me know what you think.